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Ganesha the Viking ([personal profile] oftheuniverse) wrote2013-05-13 05:35 am

Geothermal vents

I'm getting so exhausted about sudden interpersonal dramas - I had been incredibly excited that graduating high school meant I was also leaving behind that notion that I was stuck with people I didn't like against my will, still had to play their games or just be miserably overlooked when I chose to ignore them. So this new familial trouble is not a fresh breed, but it's shrouded in secrets and angry revelations and I'm getting so very tired of being burned while told to look away.

Couple that with the fact that an admittedly terrible misunderstanding is gnawing at both me and the other party, and I'm at a loss as to what my next step should be.
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[personal profile] badkarma 2013-05-13 03:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Firstly I think talking in person is the best idea; it's less exhausting having a conversation take place in an hour than over the course of days. Maybe offer to hang out, take her to Starbs or something, or bring her by the apt when I'm not home and you're free? Idk I think telling her that its really rude and hurtful to be spoken ofthe way she's doing is necessary; she can't continue living with the idea that she xs get away with talking about people like this in public without repercussions. If she hopes to ever gain social skills, she needs to know that this behavior is bad.

And, she needs to know that she's burning one of the few people left in this world that genuinely cares about her.